Changing concepts of happiness

 Change ideas being available (2009-10-06 14:00:41)
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Xu by: Xu is now set by the title. The original, entitled life When a company in Beijing, ordinary programmers, 5,000 tax deduction that I pay the insurance money after all (or should I say it is the actual comparison of hand, saying that no meaningful wage theory), the annual income of about 6 million years.
As an undergraduate, a few years ago after graduating from Northeastern University, my length of service of the programmers, this treatment is very common, very common, people with high wages, there are many, but basically the management and senior technical staff, wage low there are many, mostly just to work or education is not high. my income is the middle layer.
like us living in Beijing to seek bachelors, the meal usually do not do, because they cook to eat with fast food cost less the same, I bought a breakfast of bread and a bottle of milk, which requires three dollars, lunch meat and a prime night to eat the lunch of two factors, plus breakfast money almost 20 yuan a day, so that rice per month money, about 600, plus occasional drink with friends and colleagues to spend money eating out, eat the money spent on basic year is 7 thousand dollars.
I rented a 40 square meters of the suburbs of the old one home, 1500 yuan monthly, and not expensive, plus management fees and utilities and daily total of 1,600 yuan per month, a year down to 20,000.
meals and housing are to spend the bulk of life, there are fixed costs transport and communication costs, transportation charges are not expensive, the bus back and forth every day, also over 1 month, fixed telephone and mobile phone charges of 100 yuan, which is almost throughout the year add up to four thousand.
as in the office work is required to wear formal clothes, some of the summer dress is a common tie with shirt pants shoes, Xidan City last weekend I went to visit a shopping mall, find a cheap summer assembly down to 1500 (300 shirt , tie 200, 400 pants, underwear 80, socks 20, 400 shoes, belts 100 are local brands, a import brand trousers will 1000), dressed in a suit and sweater in winter plus a set of 3000. I every two 4 sets of summer for 3 years for 2 sets of winter clothes, plus some normal wear casual clothing, clothing a year to spend a total of six thousand Yuan.
remove these, every year there will be about 7 thousand other expenses, including usually buy books, learning, Internet access costs 2 thousand year the Chinese New Year round-trip travel expenses back home a thousand, and the New Year your parents of the two thousand. These are my normal life, the cost to the quality of life is not too much, a little luxury consumption that are not (eg, play, pub, sing KTV, tourism, etc.), all add up to 40,005 per year, so I can rest 5 thousand dollars. However, to ensure that a fever is not a year, or for two back to the hospital this will not protect the fruits of victory.
my annual salary of 6 million, deposits of 5 thousand per year, normal lives, but the work a few years later, I found the problem here, because I suddenly found myself Express 30, the girlfriend has not one, parents began urging me to hurry to get married. Yes ah, man Sanshierli, cause you can not stand up slowly, the house or to the total into it. So I carries a 6-year savings of 30,000, ready to find the object of marriage.
room office in Beijing, mostly girls, are very simple, this may be a pragmatic culture of the so-called female white-collar workers out of the fight, do not wear clothes of the World brand, food to go French restaurant, the boyfriend talk about the culture of non-basic no foreigners, have also individuals. but that does not mean she should be subsidizing you, though do not want you to feed, but can not because you are married with two thousand have come out ahead to you, certain users have said, happy and stable marriage, the husband of its economic base is 1.8 times the income of the wife, depending on, not know he was counted out loud noise, but think also meet certain situation. So I'm looking for an annual salary of 60,000 with me, MM is not conducive to stability, in fact, even though I wish people would not marry me, even if the old 30 soon, and look I'm sorry the audience not to marry me. The annual salary of 30 000 MM have the following , looks good looks should be converted into 10 million to 100 million annual salary calculations, so I will not marry, so good match is the annual salary of more than 30,000 objects, the basic worthy of our girls grow.
by a friend, I know a little girlfriend Joan, after a year of love, I found that Joan is really small individual stickers girl, she never asked me to buy expensive gifts to her, eating out is to go small Chinese restaurant, do not play out, clothes do not buy brand name, and occasionally watch movies, send Valentine's Day cards on the line. She said that two people live, if we really love each other like, do not need so much vanity. my god, what a great girl, in this materialistic society, there is still such a simple kind of girl, I'm so happy. because the feeling too good, can not help on the bed, and because a good condom to 3,4 dollars a month, money is better than dozens of sets of Therefore, the provincial money to buy a 1 dollar 2 defective condoms, spent 1 million in the paragraph after dating and contraception failed, I decided to marry her.
so we are prepared to buy a house, a security in Beijing home. Now the average price of 5 ring outside the house has been 6000, and even the humble second-hand floor, are mostly out of 4,5 thousand of prices, we look at kind of a house of 80 square meters, this is not a luxury the first phase and a total of simple decoration to 30 million. girlfriend annual salary of only 3 million, with colleagues sharing a dorm room, of course, there will be no deposits. So I removed the existing 2 million, I would scrape together the down payment can be 28 million to , and if I save 5 thousand per year, 48 years later I can buy a set of his own house mortgage to live, but we can not get married after 48 years, ah, so I decided to talk to their parents through. that is to use, in fact, discussion, because can not have borrowed from. We have only one child, parents are party people who hurt children, but have not been laid off before retirement, hundreds of thousands of lives saved, if we put the money should come should be able to got enough money down and decoration. There are some old-age pension parents only let them off with the province, and usually allow them to exercise more, as long as the rest of my life is not sick, should be able to go on.
to Well, buy a house down payment, we began to consider the cost of marriage, is to please the customer, is to shoot the wedding, the honeymoon is to degree can be a simple but can not engage in, or not called marriage, and called cohabitation . So we decided to treat 2 million, 3 thousand wedding, 2 dollars to travel honeymoon in Jiangsu province, from simple enough for you? that needs 20,005, and I kept five thousand a year, 5 years later give a feast to do the wedding. but we can wait until 5 years after the wedding do, so not up for it, when children are 4 years old and a half, he will have to leave with the kindergarten teacher said to my teacher today, I want to pro-father and mother's wedding. So we decided with my colleagues first, by 30,000, 20,005 married, have children keep 5 thousand, more than 6 years to pay off the money, we can honor my parents, now 4 thousand dollars a year the money and her honor parents, 1 thousand dollars of money used to repay, the parents would not honor the!
buy a house, marry a good source of money, we want to start thinking already pregnant with the child and family after the cost of living. because the house loans of 50 million, three thousand a month mortgage, plus property management fees, utilities, gas pipelines, telephone charges and other charges year is 50,005, a family of three meals and socialize with colleagues 2 million a year the money , 4 year, thousands of family transportation costs, clothing costs 3 year 10,000 people (not the mall to buy), children in kindergarten 10,005 per year, other costs such as travel expenses home to see their parents, the cost of buying books online, daily other expenses of life, etc. 6 thousand a year. The rest of the entertainment of all need to spend money all engage in, the province has enough to it, all add up to nearly 10 million per year.
That is, if I buy a house, marry and have children later, or live a normal, my annual salary of 60,000, a small King 30000 annual salary, debt per 2 million lives a year, if you count the family doctor, parents, children pension and set aside money for college, a year liabilities 5 million or more. If you do not buy a house and renting housing, can save 2 million a year, do not care to save 20,005 children, not adoptive parents but also can save 5 thousand, plus life do not get sick, so we can two people maintain current standards of living. But this possible? little Joan to marry me, did not own a house to live, can not be fruitful, child, parents can not afford, not so sick, she married me dry-bulb?
so I only 2 million deposit to all to her, told her that you remove the child to the hospital, we break up, you must find a find the object after the monthly salary of 1 million or more, ah, we do not have the fate of the .
and small Joan broke up, I am down for a long time, I do not need to live in luxury, but live in their own homes, raise a child, aged parents, this is over it? few months, not from the pain and confusion in the relief over, until one day in the horizon to see the other users of the post Beijing apartment rent back now, and looking for another seven like-minded people, near the site of the company rented a room 600 yuan, a total of 8 people to sleep, four bunk beds, electricity and water charges assessed, a total of 100 yuan per month.
because they live too close to walk to work without transportation, bus every 2 week trip out of the door, January 10 is enough.
not eat breakfast, bread and milk, change to eat 2 of 5 cents buns drinking water, the other near the site of so many small restaurants, where there is a place that is the same as the cafeteria several poon choi at the door to give you choice, a dish 1 or 2 dollars, 1 dollar rice and soup you can eat. lunch and dinner, and we are 8 people each put 2 dollars, to the dishes and then spend 4 dollars to buy four boxes of rice, rice compacted fill, enough for 8 people to eat. Although vegetable oils that taste a bit strange, But eating dead on the line, the key is as long as 5 dollars a day for food, 150 yuan every month.
find a good place to buy clothes, the zoo, there are 6 yuan a corner of the shirt, 8 yuan trousers, tie 5 blocks, each 3 underwear socks, 15 pair of shoes, suits 20 per set. but the quality is very, um, a little crooked water washed. sleeve, not straight on. This is almost a monthly clothing costs 40 yuan, and also often can wear the new.
entertainment have strokes, the village has a lot of roadside bookstall, 10 yuan a lot of people will buy, I go to bookstall on the reading, but do not buy, watch an hour back home tomorrow and then see, a week or will be able to read a. when the wages, go to Internet cafes, 2 dollars 1 hour, online and watching posts. Of course there are more exciting entertainment, farmers very dense housing construction , often directly in front of your home toilet in his living room, dark time, turns out the lights to his room, opposite the rent if you send a woman (well-developed short, meaning good luck) of the. So the spirit of life cost is 20 yuan per month Internet access fees. hearing the money better province, a fixed telephone is not installed with the company, the phone with M-Zone 10 yuan monthly, caller ID, do not open, because no use, I do not take no phone calls, send text messages only.
usually depends mainly on medical training, do not get sick do not need to spend money on the carrying case is sick, the young Kangde Zhu anyway.
other expenses such as toilet paper, ah, ah, what soap or use of, condoms do not have no girlfriend, and his hands on it. This monthly charges just spent 20 bucks.
such a calculation, 100 per room much traffic +150 +10 +40 food + clothing Entertainment Communications +20 20 +10 Other = 350 yuan, a year to use 4200. I almost enough for one month's salary a year of life, really TM was great, too happy. No wonder more than ten per cent of GDP every year wages growth has to fall, turned out to be a year for a month can feed themselves, and the remaining eleven months of the pressure is not difficult to actively work.
So, to his wife doing? to children doing? As long as ideas, as I now, not a wife, do not have children, no mortgage, no car, no sickness, no entertainment, do not wear the mall selling clothes, do not eat the regular lunch to fast food restaurants can be found the essence of a happy life!
Xu by: Xu is now set by the title. The original, entitled words: social make us mad, so we simply can not meet the requirements, we are wrong, how we want to be alive.
a company in Beijing, when the ordinary programmer, 5000 is my tax deductible After deduction of all salaries and bonuses the insurance (or should I say it is the actual comparison of hand, saying that no meaningful wage theory), the annual income of about 6 million years.
as an undergraduate degree, several years ago after graduating from Northeastern University, my length of service of the programmers, this treatment is very common, very common, people with high wages, there are many, but basically the management and senior technical personnel, low wages, there are many, mostly just to work or education is not high. my income is the middle layer.
like us living in Beijing to seek bachelors, the meal usually do not do, because they eat fast food to cook with less to spend, I bought a breakfast of bread and a bottle of milk, which requires 3 dollars, lunch meat and a prime night to eat the lunch of two factors, plus breakfast money almost 20 per day, this meal about 600 per month, plus occasional drink with friends and colleagues spent eating out money, eat the money spent on basic year is 7 thousand Yuan.
I rented in the suburbs of the old set of 40 square meters of a home, monthly rent of 1,500 yuan and not expensive, plus management fees and utilities and daily total of 1,600 yuan per month, a year down to 20,000.
food and housing spending the bulk of life, there is a fixed cost transportation and communication costs, transportation charges are not expensive, the bus back and forth every day , also a more than a month, fixed telephone and mobile phone costs 100 yuan each, the year add up to almost 4 thousand.
because office work is required to wear formal clothes, some of the summer dress is common shirt tie trousers with shoes, Xidan City last weekend I went to visit a shopping mall, find a cheap summer assembly down to 1500 (300 shirts, ties 200, 400 pants, underwear 80, 20 socks, shoes 400, belts 100 are local brands, a import brand trousers will 1000), dressed in a suit and sweater in winter plus a set of 3000. I for 4 sets of summer every two years, 3 years for 2 sets of winter clothes, plus some usually wear casual clothing, clothing a year to spend a total of six thousand dollars.
remove these, every year there will be about 7 thousand other expenses, including the usual books, learning, Internet access costs 2 thousand year home New Year a thousand round-trip travel expenses, and the two thousand New Year your parents. These are the cost of my normal life to the quality of life is not too much, a little luxury consumption that are not (eg, play, pub, KTV , tourism, etc.), all add up to 40,005 per year, so I can rest 5 thousand dollars. However, to ensure that a fever is not a year, or two to the hospital on the fruits of this victory is not insured.
I 60,000 annual salary, 5 thousand per year savings, normal lives, but the work after a few years, I found the problem here, because I suddenly found myself almost 30, and girlfriend, not one, parents began urging me to get married quickly . Yes ah, man Sanshierli, cause you can not stand up slowly, the house or to the total into it. So I carries a 6-year savings of 30,000, ready to find the object of marriage.
in Beijing Most girls in office rooms are simple, this may be a pragmatic culture of the so-called female white-collar workers out of the fight, do not wear clothes of the World brand, go to a French restaurant to eat, her boyfriend foreigners not talk about the culture of non-basic does not, there must be is the individual person. but that does not mean she wants to subsidizing you, though do not you feed, but can not because you are married with two thousand have come out ahead for you, once said that a certain friends, happy and stable marriage, and its economy is based on the husband for his wife's 1.8 times revenue, depending on, not know that he counted out loud noise, but think also meet certain situation. So I'm looking for an annual salary of 60,000 with me, MM is not conducive to stable, in fact, I would like people will not even marry me, even if the old 30 soon, and look I'm sorry the audience not to marry me. The annual salary of less than 30,000 MM, looks good looks should be converted into 10 million to 100 million annual salary calculation So I will not marry, so good match is the annual salary more than 30,000 objects, the basic worthy of all the girls look.
by a friend, I knew little girlfriend Joan, after a year of love, I found a small Joan is really an individual stick girl, she never asked me to buy expensive gifts to her, eating out is also a small Chinese restaurant to go out does not play, do not buy brand-name clothes, and occasionally watch movies, send Valentine's Day cards on the line. She said two people live, as long as we really love is like, do not need so much vanity. my god, what a great girl, in this materialistic society, there is still such a simple kind of girl, I'm too happy . because the feeling too good, can not help on the bed, and because a good condom to 3,4 dollars a month, dozens of sets of money better, so buy a 1 dollar for the province, two of the defective condoms , spent 1 million in the paragraph after dating and contraception failed, I decided to marry her.
so we are prepared to buy a house in Beijing, a home. Now the average price of 5 ring outside the house has been 6000, and even is the humble second-hand floor, are mostly out of 4,5 thousand of prices, we look at kind of a house of 80 square meters, this is not a luxury, the first phase and a total of simple decoration to 30 million. girlfriend annual salary of only 3 million, sharing the dorm with the colleagues, of course, there will be no deposits. So I removed the existing 2 million, I would scrape together 28 million to connect the down payment, and if I save five thousand a year, 48 years later I can mortgage buying a house to live their own, but we can not get married after 48 years, ah, so I decided to talk to their parents through. that is to use, in fact, to discuss, because can not have borrowed from. We have only one child, side parents who hurt their children, and have not been laid off before retirement, hundreds of thousands of lives saved, if we have this money over, should be got enough money down and decoration. There are some parents pension pension, can only make them with the province over, usually so that they exercise more, as long as the rest of my life is not sick, should be able to go on.
're ready to buy a house down payment, we began to think of marriage costs, customer is to ask for, is to shoot the wedding, the honeymoon is to degree can be a simple but can not engage in, or not called marriage, and called cohabitation. So we decided to treat 2 million, three thousand wedding, 2 thousand dollars to travel honeymoon in Jiangsu province, from simple enough for you? that needs 20,005, and I kept five thousand a year, 5 years later to do the wedding feast. But we can wait until 5 years after the wedding do so not up for it, when children are 4 years old and a half, he will have to leave with the kindergarten teacher, said teachers today I want to attend the wedding of my own father and mother. so we decided to tell my colleagues asked by 30000, 20005 married , 5 thousand keep a baby, more than 6 years to pay off the money, we can honor my parents, now 4 thousand dollars a year and her money to honor their parents used the money to 1 thousand dollars debt, the parents would not honor it!
buy a house, marry a good source of money, we want to start thinking already pregnant with the child and family after the cost of living. because the house loans of 50 million, three thousand a month mortgage, plus property management fees, utilities, gas pipelines, telephone charges and other charges year is 50,005, a family of three meals and socialize with colleagues of money one year 2 million, 4 year, thousands of family transportation costs, clothing costs 3 man-years 10000 (not the mall to buy), children in kindergarten 10,005 per year, other costs such as travel expenses home to see their parents, the cost of buying books online, other expenses of daily life, etc. 6 thousand a year. The rest all need to spend money be not to engage in entertainment, the province had enough of it, all add up to nearly 10 million per year.
That is, if I buy a house, marry and have children later, or live a normal, my annual salary of 60,000, the small King 3 million annual salary, debt per 2 million lives a year, if you count the family doctor, parents, children pension and set aside money for college, a year more than 5 million debt. If you do not buy a house and renting housing, can be saved per year 20000, do not care to save 20,005 children, not adoptive parents but also can save 5 thousand, plus life do not get sick, so we two people can maintain our current standards of living. But this possible? small Joan married I, did not own a house to live, can not be fruitful, child, parents can not afford, not so sick, she married me dry-bulb?
so I took only 2 million deposit all to her, told her that You go to the hospital the child removed, we break up, you must find a find the object after the monthly salary of 1 million or more, ah, we do not have the fate of the.
and small Joan broke up, I am down for a long time, I does not need to live in luxury, but live in their own homes, raise a child, aged parents, this is too it? few months can not be in remission from the pain and confusion over, until one day see another Beijing horizon User post near the site of the company rented a room 600 yuan, a total of 8 people to sleep, four bunk beds, electricity and water charges assessed, a total of 100 yuan per month.
because live near, walk to work without transportation, every 2 week bus trip out of the door, January 10 is enough.
not eat breakfast, bread and milk, and change to eat the buns 2 5 cents drinking water, the other near the site of so many small restaurants, which is a the same as the cafeteria several poon choi put you at the door option, a dish 1 or 2 dollars, 1 dollar either rice and soup to eat. lunch and dinner we have 8 people each put 2 dollars, and some of the dishes and then spend 4 dollars to buy four boxes of rice, rice compacted fill, enough for 8 people to eat. Although vegetable oils that taste a bit strange, but eating dead on the line, the key is as long as 5 dollars a day for food , a total of 150 yuan per month.
find a good place to buy clothes, the zoo, there are 6 yuan a corner of the shirt, 8 yuan trousers, tie 5, all three underwear socks, 15 pair of shoes, 20 per suit set. but the quality is very, um, a little crooked water washed. sleeve, not straight on. This is almost a monthly clothing costs 40 yuan, and also often can wear the new.
entertainment have strokes, the village has not small roadside bookstall, 10 yuan a lot of people will buy, I go to bookstall on the reading, but do not buy, watch an hour to go home tomorrow and then see, a week or you can read a copy. When wages, go to Internet cafes, 2 dollars 1 hour, online and watching posts. Of course there are more exciting entertainment, farmers very dense housing construction, often directly in front of your home toilet in his living room, dusk When the lights off to his room, opposite the rent if you send a woman (well-developed short, meaning good luck) the. so spiritual life cost is 20 yuan per month Internet access fees. hearing the money better Province, fixed telephone is not installed with the company, the phone with M-Zone 10 yuan monthly, caller ID, do not open, because no use, I do not take no phone calls, send text messages only.
depends mainly on medical training in peacetime , do not get sick do not need to spend money on the carrying case is sick, the young Kangde Zhu anyway.
other expenses such as toilet paper, ah, ah, what soap or use of, condoms do not do not have a girlfriend, his hands can . so the monthly charges just spent 20 bucks.
such a calculation, 100 per room much traffic +150 +10 +40 apparel food Communications +20 +10 +20 other entertainment = 350 yuan, a year before use 4200. I almost enough for one month's salary a year of life, really TM was great, very happy. No wonder more than ten per cent GDP growth in mid-wage level has to fall, the original is the work of a month can feed themselves years, the remaining eleven months of the pressure is not difficult to actively work.
So, to his wife doing? to children doing? as long as ideas, as I now, not a wife, do not have children , no mortgage, no car, no sickness, no entertainment, do not wear the mall selling clothes, do not eat the regular lunch fast food shop to find the true meaning of happy life!